Most of the doctors and other women's said that is not right. The caffeine activities the baby and it moves more than usual. About the beer is not good, but if you want you can try it.
Not hard to wait 9 months to drink alcohol again, health of your baby is more important.
If that's not the case and you can't wait to throw beer down your throat then maybe it wasn't the right time to become a mum.
Sorry but the truth hurts.
Also the fact you've wrote that anonymously just proves that you're not proud of thinking like that yourself.