Good afternoon. I would like to know if anyone else has experienced ge...

10 месяцев назад Анастасия 4г2м 1г5м Барановичи

Good afternoon. I would like to know if anyone else has experienced getting pregnant when their baby was about six months old... How did you decide to go through with the pregnancy? And how was it after giving birth? I'm afraid I won't be able to handle a third child emotionally... my oldest is 3 years old, and my youngest is 8 months old. Today, I saw a faint second line on the test, and I hope it's a false positive. I'm even afraid to tell my husband...

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Supermoms

Good day! Anxiety and fears are perfectly natural in such a situation. If you are indeed going to have a third child, it will be a significant burden on you as a parent, but it's important to remember that you will manage. When deciding what to do, consult a doctor or a childbirth specialist. They can provide you with information about possible options and explain the consequences. After giving birth, it's crucial to ensure you have support and help to avoid overburdening yourself. Reach out to relatives, friends, or hire a nanny so that you can rest and recover. Don't be afraid to share your feelings with your husband. He might be feeling anxious too, and together you can find a solution that is best for your entire family. Remember, you are not alone in this situation and you can always seek help and support.

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Ксения

1г5м

Sorry, but ... when your husband was handling his business, he wasn't afraid, but you are scared.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Ксения , My husband and I are going through a really tough period. And now there's also a possible pregnancy... I'm more afraid for myself... what it will be like, how I will handle it. The older one stopped waking up at night at 2.9, after the younger one was discharged, now I don't sleep with the younger one, if it drags on, I'm afraid I might completely lose it... But on the other hand, maybe things aren't all that bad...

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Ксения , Two boys are planned, and then... So I'm a bit scared..

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Ксения

1г5м

Анастасия , No matter what period it is with your husband, he must be accountable for his actions. It will certainly be hard for you, of course, my opinion doesn't matter... there's a very small difference. Without help, one can go crazy.

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Maybe there was a malfunction, repeat the test in a week or do an ultrasound and hCG test.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Гуля , I took a hCG test, and the pregnancy was confirmed.

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Анастасия , Congratulations) What have you decided?

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Гуля , Thank you, nothing yet... I haven't told my husband, the results came last night, and today he's at work, I don't want to talk about it over the phone. I might tell him this evening.

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Анастасия , "Everything will be fine"

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Гуля , Just as I thought, he does not want to.

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Анастасия , "He doesn't want you to give birth?"

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Гуля , "She doesn't want to give birth, and she isn't talking about abortion yet."

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Анастасия , If he does not want to and you give birth, it is unlikely that you will receive any help from him. It will be difficult for you, especially if the younger one starts to feel jealous.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Гуля , "Let's hope we figure it out..."

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Анастасия , 🙏

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Черная

1г8м

Hello, I got pregnant with my third child and after 9 months, I had a medical abortion. Now I regret it. Everything should be well thought out, and one should not rush to have an abortion on the 7th day of delay, acting on emotions, thinking that I can't cope or manage. Plus, there were problems with my husband. One should always only rely on oneself. Children are often primarily the responsibility of women.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Черная , Here I am, torn... very much so...

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Xumor

3г8м 2г0м 4м0н

My third pregnancy also turned out to be unplanned. Initially, I lost my mind, wanted to take pills, and had no plans to give birth at that time. Also, due to my health condition, I was not supposed to get pregnant for another six months. Later, my mom and husband persuaded me, asking how I could think of killing my own child, and they said such things that I even cried 😅. Still, consider your health condition, as it will be hardest on you. The first few months without help will be a nightmare. If you never planned to have a third child in the first place, you might regret it later, but we still wanted to have at least three children, so we decided to keep the baby.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Xumor , That's exactly the problem, I didn't want any more children, and I was taking birth control, but I had to stop temporarily due to health issues... And now, here we are…

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Кристина

3г10м 2г0м 9м3н

Good afternoon. My eldest son will be three years old on April 2nd, my daughter is one year old, and I am currently 37 weeks pregnant and about to give birth. I was not prepared, but I have come to terms with it. My husband accepted my decision to keep the baby. Yes, I understand that everything will be on me and it won't be easy, but since it turned out this way, it means the child is meant to live; I had no right to end his life. Moreover, with my female health issues, that I might not be able to have more children, this third child is a gift to me. 😅

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Кристина , Oh, I wish you patience and strength... I've already taken 4 tests, all weakly positive, from different brands, with different sensitivities... I still hope that it's not true...

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Кристина

3г10м 2г0м 9м3н

Анастасия , Well, I did the same too, then I bought an electronic one, and realized that's it, it's time to accept it.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Кристина , It will be cheaper to donate blood)) The electronic one showed me a negative result with the older one))

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Кристина , I took a hCG test, the pregnancy was confirmed.

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Кристина

3г10м 2г0м 9м3н

Анастасия , I can congratulate you ))) but the choice is always yours.... the main thing is that it is the right one, weigh everything well so that later you don't regret anything.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Кристина , A very difficult choice.. I haven't told my husband about it yet..

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Кристина

3г10м 2г0м 9м3н

Анастасия , Well, he is the guest of honor, discuss it together, and make a decision that will suit both of you. At least my husband supported me in my choice, and now we are expecting our second daughter ))) The main thing is a considered decision, as unfortunately, women suffer during pregnancy.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Кристина , Unfortunately, yes.. Everyone is behind us..

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Валентина

11г7м 3г9м 2г7м

Hello. I have little ones close in age, the difference between the children is 1.3 years. Of course, it was difficult, but I am managing.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Валентина , Hello, it turns out we have the same difference if I decide to keep the child. What was the biggest difficulty?

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Валентина

11г7м 3г9м 2г7м

Анастасия , In principle, there was nothing. We just didn't let each other sleep during the day. It was hard until the first year, but then it got easier.

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Валентина , "I can imagine" 🥺

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Валентина

11г7м 3г9м 2г7м

Анастасия , You'll manage, don't worry. Everything will be fine. 😉

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Анастасия

4г2м 1г5м

Валентина , I still don't know how my husband will react...

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Любовь

1г4м

"Sorry for such a question, but did you use protection? My child is also six months old, I'm afraid of getting pregnant."

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Валентина

11г7м 3г9м 2г7м

Любовь , Мы нет, не предохранялись.

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