Girls, help me. I'm already 41 and 4 weeks pregnant. I have to go to …

Girls, help me. I'm already 41 and 4 weeks pregnant. I have to go to the hospital tomorrow to give birth, because the labor is not starting. It's scary and I don't want stimulation. My belly has been loose for two weeks now, it constantly goes numb and hurts, clots like cottage cheese, everything feels like it needs to be done. I've tried everything, walking around all day, even an examination, but nothing helps, there's no strength left... and it's terrifying, I don't want stimulation.