Girls, who had this, term was 36.5 weeks, to delivery weighed 43 kg, n…

Girls, who had this, term was 36.5 weeks, to delivery weighed 43 kg, now 54.9 kg (total +12kg), while in the last week gained 1.5 kg - not much, I drink a lot, move little, urine is good, blood pressure also normal, midwife started scaring everyone from toxemia to that she will injure the baby during childbirth and he will become disabled...I'm crying...and I don't know what to eat anymore, I want to eat...Has anyone had this? How to lose weight? Ultrasound was two weeks ago everything was fine. Before that it added 600-800g, sometimes even went down in