Girls, when did you have your episiotomy, did it happen on the first t…

Girls, when did you have your episiotomy, did it happen on the first try? Was it very painful? In my first pregnancy, they removed it quickly. Now the doctor tried, but I was so uncomfortable, it felt like she was pulling out the baby (the episiotomy was attached, apparently). ??‍♀️ I'm moving the appointment for Friday, I hope it will be easier.