Not much whining... After the third child was born, the husband took o…

Not much whining... After the third child was born, the husband took out a mortgage when we were living in a civil marriage, then registered. Now, when I started asking him for help around the house, he started answering sharply: "What do you have, a leak?" I should still be helping you, you should be happy that he bought an apartment! This is just stupid, like a knife to the heart! When I want to talk to him about his behavior, he immediately starts saying: "Do you want a scandal?!" I have my own apartment, my mom lives there now. It's 700 km from us. I think I'll just leave and that's it, I don't have the