Today is 40 weeks and 5 days, and I gave birth to my daughter at this ...

1 год назад Satomi 4г1м 1г2м Нур-Султан

Today is 40 weeks and 5 days, and I gave birth to my daughter at this stage. And why did I think that the second birth would come faster? There are no signs of labor, just absolute silence. I even seem to have come to terms with my belly, as if I will always be like this. They usually say the baby quiets down before labor, but for me, everything is as usual, the activity hasn't changed, though the practice contractions have become less frequent. I feel apathetic and irritable. Maybe subconsciously I don't want to and don't allow myself to give birth because I'm afraid? I'm really scared to experience that pain again, scared of various outcomes, scared that the diagnosis will be confirmed and the baby will indeed need heart surgery... In two days, they will admit me and induce labor. I still wish it would happen naturally... I'm looking for support in this app, but it seems like the girls have stopped sharing and supporting each other, everything is different now.

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Supermoms

Понимаю, что это может быть очень страшно и тяжело. Но помни, что ты сильная женщина, и ты справишься с любыми испытаниями, которые жизнь поставит перед тобой. Важно помнить, что ты не одна, и всегда можно обратиться за поддержкой к своим близким, друзьям или специалистам. Помни, что каждая беременность и роды уникальны, и не стоит сравнивать их с предыдущими опытами. Доверься своему телу и профессионалам, которые окружают тебя в этот момент. Важно сохранять позитивный настрой и верить в свои силы. Не бойся выразить свои страхи и беспокойства, обсудить их с кем-то близким или специалистом может помочь справиться с ними. Помни, что ты не одна, и всегда можно найти поддержку и понимание. Желаю тебе силы, мужества и уверенности в себе в этот важный для тебя период. Все будет хорошо, держись и верь в себя!

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Дарья

1г5м

I gave birth at 41 weeks and 2 days, and it was a cesarean. They tried to induce labor with a pill, a catheter, and by breaking the water. After they broke the water, contractions started, and about three to four hours later, I asked for an epidural because I couldn't bear the pain anymore. Before administering it, the doctor decided to check how dilated I was, but not only was there no dilation, the cervix wasn't ready either. They said not to expect anything good from a natural birth and sent me to the operating room. I wanted to give birth naturally, but only after giving birth did I learn that the umbilical cord was critically short, and, as they explained to me, the baby was coming face first. I don't want to scare you with my experience, but what I want to say is: it doesn't matter how you give birth, the most important thing is that you and your baby are healthy and well—that's what matters most. I wish you an easy delivery and a quick recovery 🫂 and good health to your baby 🙏.

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🌈Филана🦋

2г7м

For example, I can't create posts at all; they somehow don't get published. The app is very glitchy, something is always not working, and maybe many others here have the same problem, which is why they are gradually leaving it. The developers don't care, they don't address the problems at all🤷 Let go of fear, trust your body, every childbirth is unique, not like any other. The feeling of fear interferes with the production of necessary hormones, you just need to switch off your brain and live by instincts until you give birth, it helps. Relax, try to have more pleasant experiences and emotions. Talk to your baby, imagine how you take them in your arms, call them, ask for a quick meeting, imagine how you caress them. I started doing this in the last week and it all worked out) it was also quiet before. Wishing you easy childbirth💐

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Do the exercise, like squats, walking up stairs, washing floors by hand, or maybe finally some patience))) I myself don't know when I'll go into labor, they set the date for the end of January, which will be almost 40 weeks) Wishing you an easy labor) Don't worry, you'll soon be holding your baby in your arms)

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Гуля , I gave birth to the first one at 39.3 weeks.

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Гуля

4г1м 1г0м

Who will you have, if it's not a secret?)

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Улпан

3г3м 1г1м

Everything will be fine, don't worry, there's no need to be afraid of what hasn't happened yet. Yes, it will be tough, but you will manage. After the first childbirth, it was also hard, but you made it through, and the same will happen with the second. We are strong, don't worry, with you and your little one, God willing, everything will be fine.

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