Girls who have already given birth, please tell me — who took their hu…

Girls who have already given birth, please tell me — who took their husband with them? How did your relationship change afterwards? What changed drastically? How do you feel about it? I'm pregnant for the second time ? and I don't know whether to take my husband with me or not ?‍♀️... or I'm thinking I might go alone... At my first birth my mom was with me, this time I don't want to bother her ?