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I read posts about GRUDNO VSKAARMLIVANIY and decided to tell my story: I gave birth to my first child at 18 years old. My husband was in the army, I lived alone with my daughter. The daughter was born almost 5 kg. I was completely torn apart after childbirth, it was impossible to sit down, there was no help from anyone. In the maternity hospital everything was good, but when we got home, that's when the horror began, with the breast. One breast became like a stone and I didn't give it to my daughter, her temperature went up to 40. I was scared so I called my mom, she came and said that the stone is already all gone. We need to drain it and express milk, otherwise an operation, I was scared. The temperature is high, the breast doesn't let the baby have milk all day, on formula, mom herself nursed, wiped the baby with a cloth and left. She said it was time. I stayed alone with the daughter and fever. Crying or not, it doesn't matter. The baby is restless and cries day and night. And here's what I did, filled a basin of hot water because it's hard to go out when the daughter is crying. I put my daughter in the stroller, rocking it with my foot while my chest is sore and I lay a warm towel on it. Then I go back to rocking the stroller for hours until it's all done. The breast was blue, green, red, and painful, like an ad-hoc torture chamber. By morning, I had worked out all of her pain. My right hand has swollen lumps. But that didn't bother me then. She started to have a fever, and in the morning, I gave my daughter breast milk. I'll feed her, but everything else I pump while sitting because I'm afraid. And so we torture ourselves for up to 4 months with daily pumping, pain, tears, a little bit of fever, they all told me, you're stupid, get over it and forget. But how, the baby button is on the formula, for me it was the scariest thing. I was scared of that, and then everything became normal, I fed her until she was 3 years old. I don't regret at all, not a single drop, and my second, third son also went through this first month, that's how it was. Tears, fever, lumps in the chest, pain, but only then did he come close by. And he helped so much, he massaged them daily for the first 1.5 hours. He fed him every hour in the evening, and every 15 minutes, he would feed him, pouring milk on his chest. I think that no mixture can replace a mother's milk, whether it is thin or thick. We should try to do our best until the baby is exclusively breastfed. It's very important.
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