Girls, I have a question in my head, I'm thinking about how to proceed…

Girls, I have a question in my head, I'm thinking about how to proceed. Today is day 41.1, my belly hurts and my lower back hurts, I've been sick all night and cleaned my stomach. The plug hasn't moved, the water is still at the same place) the labia are sore. At the gynecologist's appointment on Friday, she offered hospitalization, I refused, and now I'm thinking maybe I should go to the maternity ward, or wait until the process starts itself, I don't want it stimulated, and the term is already big ( How to be? Wait or get hospitalized?