Girls, who have given birth to babies, more precisely with a differenc…

Girls, who have given birth to babies, more precisely with a difference of 1.4 or 1.5? Tell me about second births? How was it? Harder? Just like the first one? Or vice versa, quickly and easily? Time is approaching and becomes scary. Many said that if there's not a big difference then second births are easier. Damn, it's really scary because they say that by the end of the year partners won't be launched to go together, it's scary, all scary. I'm waiting for your stories and advice.