Hello everyone. I had my first child who was large, born at 4.700. The…

Hello everyone. I had my first child who was large, born at 4.700. They told me that it's dangerous not to hold him like this and that it's harmful for both mother and baby. Especially considering the postpartum period and the fact that he is already a newborn. And I ended up having to give birth in a special hospital and via cesarean section. Okay, we went through it. Now, I have a symfisiopathy. Someone says that after 30+ weeks and even during labor, the cervix can open. I am afraid. I don't want to have a C-section. And I am sure that the baby is not small enough to affect the symphysis. Question