I have such a problem, the child doesn't sleep at night and wants to b…

I have such a problem, the child doesn't sleep at night and wants to be held all the time, when the husband is home he often looks after the child, I can't stand carrying him on my arms, and when he leaves for work at night for his night shift, the child cries endlessly, it won't fall asleep, aggression starts, all the milk in my breasts sucks up that nothing remains, and in the crib it won't fall asleep either and even on their feet too, I don't know what to do anymore.