Girls, can I complain...?! A son was born. He slept on my hands for a…

Girls, can I complain...?! A son was born. He slept on my hands for a month, we'd turn him over and he'd wake up, rarely when it worked out, but he'd sleep for short periods in the end. In short, he was constantly on me. Either eating, or sleeping, or crying ? Now he doesn't lie down alone, maximum 5-7 minutes and starts crying. I can't even wash myself... talk about cooking and cleaning is not even an option... Who lived like this? ?when did it get easier? I want to cook healthy food and do things, but it just won't work ?