Girls, hello! Tell me please, how did you have your second child's bir…

Girls, hello! Tell me please, how did you have your second child's birth go, especially if there is a small difference, how long did you wait for the first and second? Time is approaching and it becomes very scary, after memories from the first births? In the first birth, the cervix was very poorly opening, although the contractions were strong, the contractions lasted 18 hours, the whole cervix tore during childbirth?