Girls, I'm a worried mother I'm very worried about my child and strange…

Girls, I'm a worried mother I'm very worried about my child and strange dreams have been coming Are there books on children to understand how to properly raise them, on how to explain everything correctly, not to give in to their tantrums, on growth crises in the year, at 3 years old, etc About children's psychology? I don't want my child to grow up as a nervous, anxious person because of my worry. How can I avoid this?