Girls, after 40 days we wanted to try with my husband PA. The birth was…

Girls, after 40 days we wanted to try with my husband PA. The birth was with ruptures, both internal and external. This will be after the 25th, I wanted to register with a gynecologist so she could look and say if it's possible or not, but then they told me there are no appointments at all :( Can you try without the gynecologist's approval? Or is it better to wait even longer? But there's no strength left for both of us ?