Good evening. Who has it like this? I have low abdomen with colitis so…

Good evening. Who has it like this? I have low abdomen with colitis sometimes. I'm not in checkups yet, haven't gone anywhere. I tell my husband that I want to go for an ultrasound, he says it's still early. And he doesn't want anyone to know about the pregnancy yet. It's his first time. Although on those three of my pregnancies, he told everyone. And now he has some jealousy thing, you know ? Although he is very happy that I got pregnant