Do you have a husband? Our sink in the kitchen has been clogged for a …

Do you have a husband? Our sink in the kitchen has been clogged for a couple of weeks now, I can't fix it myself, it seems like it gets clogged again and then back up ? Although I don't even pour anything in. My husband does the same thing as me and can't fix it either. Today I called a plumber because he took out everything, cleaned it and put it back in place, paid for it myself and water never filled up, my husband noticed this and started freaking out that I am such an idiot that I asked for help and now he feels worthless, is that how it works? I feel like I'm giving birth prematurely from all the crying...