Hello, I have such a question for my daughter who is 9 months old. I w…

Hello, I have such a question for my daughter who is 9 months old. I want to pierce her ears next month but I'm worried that it will hurt and when I'll be cleaning them, and besides, my mother-in-law is putting pressure on me saying that it's torture of a child. My mom bought gold earrings for my little girl and wants to give them as a gift at her first birthday. I really want her to heal before she turns one, but I'm very worried.