Hello. We're 8.5 months old. Recently, we were visiting and all the au…

Hello. We're 8.5 months old. Recently, we were visiting and all the aunts heard that I still don't miss my daughter immediately, my hair stands on end (as if it's not normal). My daughter just started sitting down recently. Since she didn't sit, I didn't miss her either. In general, is it right to hold an 8-month-old baby? From what age should you hold them? We were even advised to sit on a potty ?