Hello everyone. Moms of toddlers, tell me how you coped with children in…

Hello everyone. Moms of toddlers, tell me how you coped with children in the first time? Very hard? My daughter is 1.1 now, when I give birth to the second one it will be 1.7. And I didn't think about anything, for me everything was OK. But yesterday my husband said to go to have a baby at his mom's place. Like she would help me cope with two kids. I convinced him that it's a bad idea, there's no difference if he's late at work, that his mother-in-law is late too. He agreed. But now he insists on sending the daughter to her. I said I'm against it, because as