Hello everyone. Moms of toddlers, tell me how you coped with children …

Hello everyone. Moms of toddlers, tell me how you coped with children in the first time? Very hard? My daughter is 1.1 now, when I give birth to the second one it will be 1.7. And I didn't think about anything, for me everything was OK. But yesterday my husband said to go to have a baby at his mom's place. Like she would help me cope with two kids. I convinced him that it's a bad idea, there's no difference if he's late at work, that his mother-in-law is late too. He agreed. But now he insists on sending the daughter to her. I said I'm against it, because as