A scream from her soul. Daughter almost 2 years old, tantrums at any g…

A scream from her soul. Daughter almost 2 years old, tantrums at any given moment, I can't, I can't handle it anymore. Something is not right with her, the cries are so loud that they make my ears ring. You could describe what happens for ages, but I think many of you will understand. Therefore, it's very important to hear your opinion? How do you cope? As this is my first child, I try to be a good mother, but my hands drop. Relatives say she's spoiled. I sometimes slap her when she's in diapers (but naturally, she's wearing them), when the boundaries cross over, and that doesn't help either. Don't