Girls who are planning to give birth and those who have already given …

Girls who are planning to give birth and those who have already given birth!!! How do you feel about epidural anesthesia? I gave birth to my first daughter almost 4 kg, I gave birth myself, it was long and hard! Although the doctor offered to put an epidural in, but she refused to! ))) She didn't know at that moment what awaited me with my low pain threshold )))) On the second delivery, I want to put her in! So many fears about everything, and I don't want to think about pain anymore ? Write who has experienced something similar ?