Hello girls! We're concerned about our gums, it's been four months and…

Hello girls! We're concerned about our gums, it's been four months and we've used various remedies, mostly because the child is very irritable due to gum problems. I don't want to apply anything with alcohol, there's too much alcohol in it ? And after that, it leaves a strong alcoholic smell, and they said it's harmful for future teeth... Do you have any safe products for easing discomfort?