Good day! I would like advice on how you deal with tantrums, ?it's gro…

Good day! I would like advice on how you deal with tantrums, ?it's growing and every time new antics, she removes diapers, underwear everything, and walks barefoot around the apartment, I don't know how to teach her to use the toilet at least she doesn't sit down and imagine that for three days in a row she removes diapers and poops standing on the rug then says poop, when I quickly put her on the potty she doesn't sit down and cries, and before that she didn't give up, what should I do? I don't know ?????