Hello. This is my first time dealing with hemorrhoids. The lump hurts even…

Hello. This is my first time dealing with hemorrhoids. The lump hurts even when I lie down and I have to carry my almost 9 kg baby constantly. I've been using suppositories for three days but it hasn't gotten any better (I guess I figured out that it has been a long time). I can't go see a doctor yet because I moved to another country and haven't found a specialist here. I read that this is only treated with surgery, is that true? Has anyone dealt with this problem? Did suppositories or ointments help, or only surgery?