Hello, I'm here about the most pressing issue. Alice can barely walk o…

Hello, I'm here about the most pressing issue. Alice can barely walk on the street, she refuses to go out, citing that she has a headache and her legs hurt. She constantly has tantrums outside. I don't have the strength anymore, my back needs treatment for years now. I show how toddlers all walk on their own, and I am just skinny and small, carrying a big person? How do I do this? How do I get it across? Maybe not only me with this problem with a three-year-old? But she doesn't care about my back, I remember when my hands were so painful that I couldn't straighten them.