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Girls, calm me down. The topic is not cool, but still. The term is 18…

Girls, calm me down. The topic is not cool, but still. The term is 18 weeks, the last sex was at week 5. Everything was fine. Now the husband is coming from business trip all hungry, and I want it that way, there's no strength to endure. But I'm afraid. Will such an interval without intimacy on the child have any effect? There are no contraindications, everything is fine according to ultrasound, they put the toneus, but I don't feel it. There are no symptoms. And many people told me that in our clinic this toneus is put on everyone. Don't we worry about the baby? How do you handle these things? Please share ?

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Ольга

If there are no contraindications, you can—just be careful not to overdo it. Gently.

5 лет назад

Анастасия 5y3m

If there are no contraindications, you can have sex up until the last month. The baby won't be harmed by it.

5 лет назад

Динара 9y5m 5y4m

Well, be careful there) in the spooning position, so to speak)) if there are no contraindications

5 лет назад

Алтынай 42

No, I was like that during both pregnancies; my husband works shifts.

5 лет назад

Вероника 5y8m

The main thing is that your husband doesn't hurt you; generally, sex isn't forbidden.

5 лет назад

Светлана 12y4m 42

I completely understand you. I was afraid for a long time myself and only around 22 weeks realized I couldn't take it anymore — I snapped at my husband. Twice in two weeks. ? And now I told him that I'm still kind of scared anyway, so he shouldn't pester me anymore. ?

5 лет назад

Алина 5y5m

You can, if you're careful, and it's better on your side) if there are no contraindications, gynecologists allow it

5 лет назад

Sara 4y2m

Honestly, as funny as it may sound, if you really think about it... in nature, sex during pregnancy happens only with humans. Animals do it right: once a female is fertilized she doesn't let the male near anymore. )) And honestly, my personal opinion is that it's correct! ? Because sex still causes uterine tone and various consequences. And I also read somewhere that it's better for a woman not to have an orgasm — it's very harmful to the uterus. Well, there can be many arguments, I don't want to get into a debate with anyone, I just wrote my opinion ???

5 лет назад

sweet 5y3m

Sara, I checked with three doctors, I trust them! If it's allowed, it's even necessary! Mom produces endorphins, good for the baby ?

5 лет назад

Sara 4y2m

sweet, Well, it's up to you! )

5 лет назад

Виктория 5y10m

Sara, I, on the contrary, had some kind of hormone surge and my libido shot through the roof — I was hitting on my husband every day ?

5 лет назад

Виктория 5y10m

Sara, If you have sex only to conceive — then yes. After all, animals do it only for that. Only humans have sex for pleasure. Personally, orgasms didn't cause me any increased tone (a few seconds — there was some after orgasm, of course, but the doctor said it's nothing serious), nor any bad consequences. I gave birth on time, and the baby is doing very well. On the contrary, the doctor recommended sex, because it produces endorphins, and male semen contains prostaglandins that soften the cervix, which helps it be more elastic, meaning there won't be internal tears.

5 лет назад

Sara 4y2m

Виктория, I'm happy for you )

5 лет назад

sweet 5y3m

My husband is horny... Does he want a child?! Getting pregnant is only impossible if it's risky or previous pregnancies ended in failures! Otherwise my husband is nowhere near having a child, he won't reach ?

5 лет назад

sweet 5y3m

Just don't psych yourself out, and if something tells you not to do it, listen to yourself)

5 лет назад

Виктория 5y10m

My husband and I did it from the beginning all the way to the veeeery end. Sometimes it wasn't gentle, and in positions you're not supposed to. On the contrary, we even experimented ??? In the end everything was fine, even great. If there's no medical reason to refrain from sex, enjoy yourselves and make your husband happy! At first I had uterine tone too; they recommended 5 days of sexual rest and Papaverine suppositories.

5 лет назад

Евгения 17y1m 8y1m 5y5m

My husband also works on a rotational schedule. It's nothing to worry about. The first time, try it "without overdoing it" and keep an eye on how you feel.

5 лет назад

1237 42

Just start slowly, not all at once. So on the first day do it once for a short time and gradually increase ?

5 лет назад

Ирина 5y5m

If the doctor hasn't forbidden sexual activity, and there are no pains or discharge, then sex can even be beneficial.

5 лет назад

Софья

We still do it however we want ??‍♀️

5 лет назад

Нина 5y6m

Just don't overdo it)

5 лет назад

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