Girls, calm me down. The topic is not cool, but still. The term is 18...

5 лет назад Аноним

Girls, calm me down. The topic is not cool, but still. The term is 18 weeks, the last sex was at week 5. Everything was fine. Now the husband is coming from business trip all hungry, and I want it that way, there's no strength to endure. But I'm afraid. Will such an interval without intimacy on the child have any effect? There are no contraindications, everything is fine according to ultrasound, they put the toneus, but I don't feel it. There are no symptoms. And many people told me that in our clinic this toneus is put on everyone. Don't we worry about the baby? How do you handle these things? Please share ?

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Ольга

If there are no contraindications, you can—just be careful not to overdo it. Gently.

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Анастасия

5г0м

If there are no contraindications, you can have sex up until the last month. The baby won't be harmed by it.

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Динара

9г2м 5г1м

Well, be careful there) in the spooning position, so to speak)) if there are no contraindications

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Алтынай

No, I was like that during both pregnancies; my husband works shifts.

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Вероника

5г5м

The main thing is that your husband doesn't hurt you; generally, sex isn't forbidden.

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Светлана

12г0м 42

I completely understand you. I was afraid for a long time myself and only around 22 weeks realized I couldn't take it anymore — I snapped at my husband. Twice in two weeks. ? And now I told him that I'm still kind of scared anyway, so he shouldn't pester me anymore. ?

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Алина

5г2м

You can, if you're careful, and it's better on your side) if there are no contraindications, gynecologists allow it

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Sara

3г11м

Honestly, as funny as it may sound, if you really think about it... in nature, sex during pregnancy happens only with humans. Animals do it right: once a female is fertilized she doesn't let the male near anymore. )) And honestly, my personal opinion is that it's correct! ? Because sex still causes uterine tone and various consequences. And I also read somewhere that it's better for a woman not to have an orgasm — it's very harmful to the uterus. Well, there can be many arguments, I don't want to get into a debate with anyone, I just wrote my opinion ???

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sweet

5г0м

Sara , I checked with three doctors, I trust them! If it's allowed, it's even necessary! Mom produces endorphins, good for the baby ?

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Sara

3г11м

sweet , Well, it's up to you! )

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Виктория

5г6м

Sara , I, on the contrary, had some kind of hormone surge and my libido shot through the roof — I was hitting on my husband every day ?

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Виктория

5г6м

Sara , If you have sex only to conceive — then yes. After all, animals do it only for that. Only humans have sex for pleasure. Personally, orgasms didn't cause me any increased tone (a few seconds — there was some after orgasm, of course, but the doctor said it's nothing serious), nor any bad consequences. I gave birth on time, and the baby is doing very well. On the contrary, the doctor recommended sex, because it produces endorphins, and male semen contains prostaglandins that soften the cervix, which helps it be more elastic, meaning there won't be internal tears.

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Sara

3г11м

Виктория , I'm happy for you )

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sweet

5г0м

My husband is horny... Does he want a child?! Getting pregnant is only impossible if it's risky or previous pregnancies ended in failures! Otherwise my husband is nowhere near having a child, he won't reach ?

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sweet

5г0м

Just don't psych yourself out, and if something tells you not to do it, listen to yourself)

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Виктория

5г6м

My husband and I did it from the beginning all the way to the veeeery end. Sometimes it wasn't gentle, and in positions you're not supposed to. On the contrary, we even experimented ??? In the end everything was fine, even great. If there's no medical reason to refrain from sex, enjoy yourselves and make your husband happy! At first I had uterine tone too; they recommended 5 days of sexual rest and Papaverine suppositories.

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Евгения

16г9м 7г10м 5г2м

My husband also works on a rotational schedule. It's nothing to worry about. The first time, try it "without overdoing it" and keep an eye on how you feel.

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1237

Just start slowly, not all at once. So on the first day do it once for a short time and gradually increase ?

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Ирина

5г2м

If the doctor hasn't forbidden sexual activity, and there are no pains or discharge, then sex can even be beneficial.

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Софья

We still do it however we want ??‍♀️

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Нина

5г3м

Just don't overdo it)

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