I had my first delivery, gave birth to a baby weighing 4.5 kg. Truth …

I had my first delivery, gave birth to a baby weighing 4.5 kg. Truth be told, I had more than normal stretching for two to three days after giving birth, and it took me two months to recover. Now, in my second pregnancy, I feel pain when putting on one leg while standing. It hurts my labia and genitals when lying down in bed, especially when turning over. My labia hurt too! The ultrasound showed that I have 20 mm of symphysis. There are also changes in the disc of my pelvis, 25% of the total area. I'm thinking about asking for a Cesarean section? I'm afraid of similar consequences after childbirth, like not