Hello everyone ? Ladies, how long do you roughly wait for the day "X" …

Hello everyone ? Ladies, how long do you roughly wait for the day "X" after feeling your belly? I noticed myself that it seems to have dropped off a week ago, and my husband said there's a little bit. And today I went to mom, she also said that it has dropped too... And sometimes it feels like pulling at the lower abdomen, but no contractions or water leakage I notice. The plug started to recede in parts, but especially the next day, I notice a little bit. There are no streaks or anything like that, just clear mucus. It's interesting to know who already gave birth, how long did it all start after the premonitions? ?