Hello! Women who have been married for more than a year, give me some …

Hello! Women who have been married for more than a year, give me some wise advice. We have a 9-year age gap between us. He is 33, he was born as they say, a long-awaited baby. So when it comes to the child, I do everything as my mom taught me, and she raised four children on her own. I'm also older and used to babysit my brothers and help them out. My husband ?does everything according to what they write online and corrects me, teaches me. He makes the water in the bath lukewarm, the baby cries. If the baby clenches fists, then wants to eat The baby has a