Girls, here's the situation. The baby wakes up at 4 AM and then it's r…

Girls, here's the situation. The baby wakes up at 4 AM and then it's really hard to put him back to sleep, sometimes it lasts for three hours. And by the end, when he really wants to sleep, he starts crying loudly. Then the husband gets up, sometimes he manages to soothe him, sometimes not, and the baby starts screaming even more. And in such cases, the husband starts getting upset and like, maybe a little rude with him. If that's not about physical abuse, no, just like suddenly something. And after that, I feel disgust towards him. And overall, I don't know what to do about it. I tried to explain to him to be softer, but he