Girls, tell me about weaning, we want to start, bought baby tableware,…

Girls, tell me about weaning, we want to start, bought baby tableware, several purees for testing. Who started from what? When to introduce chunks? Vegetables, cereals, fruits, meat (in that order?) when can you give with a spoon? Savely banana/apple? How many days do you introduce one vegetable? It will be interesting to hear your experience with self-weaning too. How to encourage a child to drink water if he refuses? In general, there are so many questions, so much information around and everyone has it differently, your experience would be interesting.