He's been gone with his family for almost two weeks, he doesn't want t…

He's been gone with his family for almost two weeks, he doesn't want to talk on the phone anymore. We've been together for four years, I just got my mobile phone, but they won't let me talk to my mom and sister. They want him to talk to his mother before she dies. How old am I supposed to be when I can talk to my mom? When she dies then they will give me permission to live, she doesn't think it's too much, my mom is not well anyway. They live in another country, I haven't seen my grandmother since the wedding, I miss her, sometimes I think that I don't see her anymore because she's old and