Girls I don't even know what to do anymore... Is this normal or something?

Girls I don't even know what to do anymore... Is this normal or something? ??‍♀️ My daughter is 2.5 years old and she's always in hysterics, everything's not right all the time, she fights if she doesn't like something or if she doesn't get something, screams with her own voice.. Grandma says that it's because she's not baptized ? (but we're Jewish) Dad wants to take her to a psychiatrist... Is this normal? On social media everyone has such perfect kids, I don't know what to think anymore.