Girls, tell me, labor is individual for each woman, but roughly like t…

Girls, tell me, labor is individual for each woman, but roughly like this? Contractions, water, that's when the water goes away you need to change disposable diapers or underwear? And when do you have to take them off? Then there are afterpains, the baby comes out after the placenta, you lie down and under you's a bowl where blood flows out, then when you get up you put pads on? Or do you go under your arms and then put on pads?