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Congratulations on the birth of your second child! It's normal to feel tired after giving birth and to experience guilt because it seems like you're not giving enough attention to your first child. However, it's important to remember that this is a temporary state and things will get better over time. It's important to take time for yourself and to rest in order to recover from childbirth. Ask for help from loved ones or hire a nanny to have the opportunity to rest and recuperate. Regarding breast problems, consult a doctor or a breastfeeding consultant for assistance. They can give you advice on how to care for cracks and make the feeding process less painful. Don't be afraid to discuss your feelings and concerns with your partner or loved ones; they can help you find solutions and support you during this challenging period. Remember that you deserve support and care, and it's important to take care of your physical and emotional well-being.

The cracks will heal in a couple of weeks if they are bleeding after feeding. Before feeding, make sure to moisten your breast with your own milk, especially the nipples and areola. Oh, don't do any housework; the most important thing is your well-being and the condition of your children. Enjoy yourself, you did great carrying the baby for 9 months. Your first child is probably still young, ask for help from your relatives. Definitely go out for walks when you really don't feel like it; find a babysitter who will take the older one out for a walk for an hour. They usually charge a couple thousand, and you can usually find one in the residents' chat group, a nanny will surely respond.