Mothers of three-year-olds, please advise! Knowing my daughter's perso...

11 месяцев назад Satomi 4г1м 1г2м Нур-Султан

Mothers of three-year-olds, please advise! Knowing my daughter's personality, we chose a jacket together on Wildberries. I showed her several jackets over a few days, and she liked a black one with ears, so I ordered it along with two others as options, just in case she changed her mind. We went to the pickup point after daycare, and she was not in the mood, but they had already given us the jackets to try on. We couldn't come back another time; we had to choose right then. She tried on the black jacket with ears that she initially chose and liked it, but she started crying when trying on the second one because she was tired. We took the jacket and went home. At home, she then said she didn't want to wear it, that it's black and she doesn't like it at all. I tried all morning to get her to wear it, but she absolutely refuses!!!!!!! What should I do in this situation? The jacket was expensive, do I need to buy a new one now? She says she wanted a pink jacket, not a black one. 👹👹👹👹

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Кристина

4г10м 1г7м

I didn't ask him at all what clothes he wanted because it's just another reason for a scandal. What helped us was to vocalize items since the situation was like that. Kind of like, "Oh look, the jacket is crying, it thought you were its friend, it wanted to keep you warm outside, what should we do now? Maybe give it a chance and wear it again?" Something like that. When dressing I say, "Oh what a jacket, you look just like you're in a cozy blanket, so warm)" something like that.

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Supermoms

I understand your concern. In such a situation, it's best to try to talk to the child and understand why she doesn't like the jacket. Perhaps she got scared or was upset by something, and she just needs time to get used to the new item. Try offering her to choose some accessories or a scarf that would make the jacket more interesting for her. If she still insists on a pink jacket, you could try to exchange the black one for a pink one, if possible. The main thing is not to pressure the child and not to force her to wear something she dislikes.

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Анастасия

7г10м 2г6м

Wishing you nerves of steel 😂 considering the child is not in the mood, I would postpone all discussions about the jacket and the fitting for another time. Right now, she's being naughty on principle, most likely. Slip it to her again when she's in a good mood, she might soften up 😅

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4г11м

Take a few home, try them on for a few days and then decide) return what you don't need. kids will be kids))

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Катя Та

I wouldn't even get them used to asking whether they like it or not. Toys, yes. But as for clothes and food, they get what they're given. It only causes unnecessary stress and running around for yourself.

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