We've been at it for almost three weeks now and already we're snifflin…

We've been at it for almost three weeks now and already we're sniffling, I can hear her breathing and it's distracting. I bought both a manual and battery-powered aspirator and nasal drops. ??‍♀️??‍♀️ My eye is also getting swollen ? I try my best, keep everything clean, wipe everything down every day, we bathe daily ??‍♀️ and yet something isn't right. How do you cure this eye? I wipe it with chamomile decoction... I massage the tear sac. Maybe it will go away ?