Hello everyone ?? Are there anyone here who has given birth with their…

Hello everyone ?? Are there anyone here who has given birth with their husband or is planning to give birth with their husband? How did everything go and so on, you can tell us please ? We live in another city and I don't have anyone here who could come with me, and my husband initially said that he would be present himself .. In principle, I am ready for childbirth, but it still bothers me the intestines ? I heard that during labor you can even make a mess of your bowels ? My husband doesn't mind this, just that I will feel embarrassed later, seems like ?