Girls, hello everyone. The question is even not sure who to address it…

Girls, hello everyone. The question is even not sure who to address it to. To parents and pregnant women, share your opinion. My daughter is already 3.5 months old. I'll say right away that I am a completely sane person and don't consider myself part of the "I'm a mom" category. So, I absolutely can't stand when my child is touched by someone, taken in their arms, kissed, or held incorrectly (that's what bothers me the most; in this issue, I make remarks and show how it should be held (not on the belly), but relatives don't put my opinion into anything). After these hugs, the baby smells like adult aunts, I just can