Today was at the appointment, we're 38 weeks pregnant, dilation 3 cm, …

Today was at the appointment, we're 38 weeks pregnant, dilation 3 cm, cervix soft, head dropped down. But I've been walking with the cervix open for two weeks already, except for training, nothing else ?‍♀️. I already want to give birth))) And after the morning examination they poked around and there were some bloody discharge on their fingers, they said not to worry it's normal, but I'm still worried. Has anyone had this too, please share how long you walked with such dilation?