Mothers of children with allergies, how do you cope? I'm going crazy s…

Mothers of children with allergies, how do you cope? I'm going crazy soon. I introduced my child oatmeal, everything was fine. Then I started introducing rice, he's getting it all over his face ?‍♀️ I tried introducing zucchini - the same story... already scared what will happen next... if he even gets zucchini on his face... now we're back to just eating oatmeal, waiting for the allergy to go away... anyway, cheeks are not red today