Girls, sweethearts, I really want to express myself. I keep encounter...

Girls, sweethearts, I really want to express myself. I keep encountering posts on this app with the theme "husband doesn't understand, can't sit with the child, doesn't give money, doesn't take for walks, mother-in-law screams, I want to rest" (I don't address anyone competitively. But damn.) What are you doing with yourselves? Why do you allow such relationships? Don't you hate yourself so much? Understand that the only person who is with you in joy, sorrow, stress and happiness is YOU! No children, husbands or relatives, but YOU!!! How do you want to achieve good relations from others