Girls, tell me, the second pregnancy (35 weeks) hurts where the belly…

Girls, tell me, the second pregnancy (35 weeks) hurts where the belly button is and between the legs, it's really bad, they said that it's normal because muscles are expanding, can I somehow ease this pain? I also wanted to say, maybe someone could give their advice, we live with our parents, the first child is 1.5 years old, I'm tired of everything in a literal sense, sometimes I snap at the kid for no reason, I'm scared of myself, suddenly in a fit of rage I might do something, I'm tired of all this cleaning, preparing, ironing, washing, guests, from parents. After the birth of the second baby,