Girls, tell me, the second pregnancy (35 weeks) hurts where the belly …

Girls, tell me, the second pregnancy (35 weeks) hurts where the belly button is and between the legs, it's really bad, they said that it's normal because muscles are expanding, can I somehow ease this pain? I also wanted to say, maybe someone could give their advice, we live with our parents, the first child is 1.5 years old, I'm tired of everything in a literal sense, sometimes I snap at the kid for no reason, I'm scared of myself, suddenly in a fit of rage I might do something, I'm tired of all this cleaning, preparing, ironing, washing, guests, from parents. After the birth of the second baby,