Girls, moms, when did your husbands take vacation? Did they even take …

Girls, moms, when did your husbands take vacation? Did they even take one? For example, I have my due date in late November. Will he be needed as soon as the baby is born? This is my first pregnancy. They say that for the first two months the baby only sleeps and eats. But later on, supposedly help is very much needed (colic, sleepless nights).