I'm so tired of being a bad mother! I cuddle, tuck her in, pat her, si…

I'm so tired of being a bad mother! I cuddle, tuck her in, pat her, sing to her, and kiss her goodnight. The result is she spins endlessly, "Mommy, I don't want to sleep" at the end, and I have to coax her with a stern "Go to sleep quickly!" She falls asleep within 5-10 minutes... What should I do? Should I just be a bad mom? Or shall we go to daycare? I love you, don't cry, let's try it, maybe you can handle it better, and when I say "Let's go to daycare quickly", there will be fewer tantrums...