Hello everyone, I'm having my first pregnancy and at 4-5 weeks, spotti…

Hello everyone, I'm having my first pregnancy and at 4-5 weeks, spotting started appearing. I was sent to the hospital for treatment. Thankfully everything passed, but then when the gynecologist wanted to take a swab, she examined me very painfully. Afterwards, I started getting discharge again, but not brown anymore, but milky, slightly dark. And now three days have passed since the discharge stopped, I want to ask if it's better not to examine vaginally, can I refuse?