Girls, hello everyone! What week were you going for your gynecologist…

Girls, hello everyone! What week were you going for your gynecologist appointment? I'm so scared to go, I can't even force myself, but it's necessary. I'm 22 weeks now, my midwife is sending me. They're going to be pulling and treating there. Girls, is it painful? How do they do it? Can you ask for an anesthetic? ??I'm really worried.